You are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire.
(Surah an-Nisa 4: 129)
What do i know about the bitterness and the sweetness in a relationship? I don’t really know i guess and hey, who am I to judge right?........Right now i am in the state of educating myself on polygamy thingy. The futher i study the more I understand the real deal here. Of course hearing the 8 alphabet word any women would raise up to their feet and grab the nearest thing to them and throwing it to the subject (the beloved hubby) and the subject would go all puppy eyes and gave out this and that excuses to tegakkan benang basah masing2 (arei deyyy sudahh laaa).
Contoh-contohnya:
Yang pertama:
Maafkan abang sayang, it’s not u it’s me (duhhhhhh!)
Kedua terbaik:
Abang terjatuh cinta pada dia, but it’s not that i dont love u anymore..i love u until long-long time (ye leee kan-alah setakat nak mintak signature mmg la ayaatt baeekk punya n after dah sign mmg batang hidung pon x nmpak)
The best of them all:
Rezeki tuhan bagi and in islam we men are allowed to marry 4 times( c so nonsense and unreasonable gila menggunakan alasan religion islam yang sgt agung sebagai green light untuk approval binik anda) -marah ni marahhh....
Okay mesti u peeps akan kata i am being to emotional and x semua akan happen macam ni (kerna nila setitik rosak susu sebelanga) but this is the fact that is being face by all those women out there. I know not all of the polygamous marriage is based on suka suki tapi to bela nasib wanita jugak. The history of polygamous marriage goes back to the Prohet Muhammad s.a.w. period during the Perang Uhud where many men was killed and they left their wives and children and so the polygamous marriage was allowed to help the women and children of the killed mens. So here again i emphasise don’t ever ever use ur religion as a ground to cover up ur skeletons yeah...
The reason this post is being published is cause i am a women too, so it makes me sick to my stomach that sometimes the opposite gender mistreat us so greatly that they are missing the big picture that we women have sacrifice so much for them. Dont get me wrong but i am not publishing this because i am in the state of being heart broken or baru lepas kene cerai for my hubby nk kawen laen yee (choiiiii selisih malaikat 44, touch wood touch wood!!! choi2!!!), it’s just a thought that i would like to share. Nonetheless, what i am trying to say is, PLEASE do cherish all the people that care for you and love you no matter who,what,where,which they are =) Do not take them for granted. This is especially dedicated to me myself, and everyone. Thanks. Oh don’t get offended huh guys, i know not all of u are jerks..there are the one’s with the hallo too kan? (fingers cross) I just wish that all of us would end up happy and content with everything that we have in life and be grateful =)
P/s: such an emotional post huh? =')
1 comment:
I like the 3rd option. /pakaisongkok. LMAO
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